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Recently, a member
of our new Ifa Tools, posted a message that he would like to list the
costs of various initiations on his web site. He thought it would serve
to highlight the fraudulent behavior we are all so sensitive to. On the
surface, it seemed like a good idea. Yet, upon reflection, it is not.
There are two areas
that must be examined when viewing people's attitudes towards the "costs"
of ceremonies, initiations and consultations.
First, the overwhelming
negative energy that people feel is a direct result of their Christian/Judaic
upbringing where they were taught that money and spirituality where mutually
exclusive. This is simply an extension of the dichotomy that was drawn
between our temporal and our spiritual existence's. A dichotomy, by the
way, that has resulted in the schizophrenic behavior of the Western world.
Having accepted the premise that the two concepts were inherently inimicable,
we made our behavioral decisions in each area without regard to the other.
So, we created a society where the process of making money had no moral
obligation, or relationship, to the welfare of the society itself. It
was a stand-alone decision. The results of this thinking - from Three
Mile Island to the disappearing Ozone layer - speak for themselves!
This has never been
Ifa's position. Ifa has always understood the inherent bond between our
temporal and our spiritual behavior. Each exists ONLY in relationship
to the other. Indeed, in the sacred Odu OgundaOsa, Ifa clearly
states: "Ifa chooses money as his partner."
The key concept here is: partner. Money, or our temporal existence,
must be in partnership with our emotional/spiritual behavior if we are
to prosper in a meaningful way.
So, those who automatically
bridle at the concept that Ifa priests and priestesses charge money for
spiritual services are missing the point. Indeed, the only way the Babalawo
or priest, could afford to devote his or her time to learning, growing,
accumulating knowledge and ase', was if the community paid for their services.
Western religion,
by the way, operates the same way... only they pretend they do not. They
would like you to believe it's free. Yet, if you did not donate, leave
bequests, buy memberships or raffle tickets, play bingo or pay tuition
at the church/temple run schools, there would be no churches, no priests,
and no temples to offer anything. Yet, to continue the masquerade of separating
our spiritual and temporal lives, they have constructed this charade that
states " money is evil.unless it's given to the church or temple." Ifa,
in this, as in every other area, does not ask you to suspend your credulity
or common sense. Ifa believes that the priest can charge for his expertise
with as much pride and confidence in his abilities and knowledge as can
the doctor, mechanic or farmer who also wants to receive compensation
for their work and education.
Second, is the question
of "How much you charge?"
In many ways this seemed the thrust of the Internet Ile members quest.
The implication, of course, is that if you charge "a lot," then you are
certainly being dishonest or, at the very least, less spiritual. This
is nonsense! Few of us would question that Bill Gates has the right to
charge more for his consultation than does the individual just graduating
with a degree in computers. It would be illogical to suggest that Dr.
Michael DeBakey hadn't the right to charge more for his open-heart procedures
than a young surgical resident. Certainly we understand that Michael Jordan
had the right to a higher salary than most of his peers.
So,
the question cannot be a matter of "how much." The
question must be a matter of expertise, integrity and character. And,
if a person of bad character charges $5.00 for a ceremony, it is too much!
If a highly skilled practitioner charges $500.00 for the same ceremony,
it may well be a bargain!
In Ifa, as in Silicon Valley or
baseball, there are .350 hitters and .220 hitters. Initiation in no way
determines the talent, intelligence, work ethic or character of the person.
It only makes it possible for whatever talent and ability and character
the individual has to rise to its ultimate level.
Each and every priest
must decide their own levels and ways of relating to the people who seek
our help. In the case of the Foundation, our costs range from "free" (through
the scholarships we give to those worthwhile, but financially unable individuals)
to group initiations and ceremonies to bring overall costs down, to higher
donations for those able to afford them. That is our approach, but it
may not be right for everyone.
The final question
about costs must be: "how do you determine the
value, character and knowledge of any priest or priestess."
Once again, this
is a question that can only be answered when you understand that life
and spirituality are not two separate experiences. Would you buy one car
over another without researching or looking into the comparisons? Would
you put your life in the hands of a surgeon you hadn't checked out or
got references on? Would you put your child in a day care without carefully
examining the safety and reputation of the people who would care for your
most precious possession? Certainly not. Well,
the same examination and research MUST be done with those to
whom you entrust your soul!
You must look for
the warning signs of the charlatan, con man or simply the priest of bad
character. Talk to others who have had relationships with them. Examine
their lives and relationships with those around them. See if their Godchildren's
lives have really improved. Beware if there is ALWAYS fear tragedy or
mishap waiting that can only be avoided by another costly ceremony. Run
away from those who would create dependence rather than independence in
your life. Leave those who find your body as interesting as your soul.
It is your responsibility. It is your life. And, it has nothing to
do with what they charge.
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